But the point is that these so-called “others” are her own team members. A team is an extension of ourselves. We don’t normally decide to cut a finger/detach it because it is sore, and we do very much need it to be there if for nothing else then at least for moral support. At the time we decide to become a part of any team, we take that added responsibility. Which, I think, she hasn’t shouldered well. As a team member, one has to be more than just an individual. That’s a personal take with no ill feelings for her.